Anonymous asked:
Hey, I'm ftm and I've come out to my parents and a few friends, and so far everyone's been super supportive, but I'm still worried. Like I'm afraid I'll tell someone who won't understand or they'll hurt me or try to convince me it's a phase and I'm just scared to come out to more people, but I want them to know. My family is also going through a rough time financially and they probably wont be able to help much with transition, I've got a little bit saved but I don't know how much anything costs

I’ve spent about 10,000$ on my transition in 2.5 years.  You could maybe start a go.fundme page.

Anonymous asked:
Hello. I've got just one question... So I'm using a homemade STP and I don't always can use the paper and every time after that... Well... I can smell the pee. So I've got a question for advice or something.. I don't know. Is there any solution for that?

I would clean it regularly.

Anonymous asked:
What would be your suggestion to a 17 year old who has an unsupportive family but honestly can't live like this anymore?

I would make plans to leave as soon as you are able.  

Anonymous asked:
I don't have an ask but I have some advice that could help some trans men have a more masculine looking face. If you put Vaseline (petroleum jelly) on your facial hair like your eyebrows for example it will help them grow faster and thicker. So if you put it on once or twice a day it will help. It helped me a ton! I hope this info can help a few other guys <3
Anonymous asked:
Hey, I'm pre-t and it's my first year in college. I want to tell my profs to call me under a different name and male pronouns. I have a letter ready and everything the only problem is I don't know how they are like and this makes me hesitant. My classes start mid aug and I'm going to have to give it to them before then. Any advice?

Most colleges will be happy to do it.  If a teacher gives you a problem, go to administration.

Anonymous asked:
So I've been struggeling with my gender identity for about a year now and it seems like I'm just at a dead end right now. My main problem is whenever I seriously think about transitioning I think I wont be able to be a guy. I'm really small (150 cm) and definitely not tough or very typically masculine and it's holding me back in considering transitioning. I'm kinda wondering if that's common or what would be a good thing to do right now. Also, my dysphoria isn't always as severe

You might be short and small, but short people exist.  Daniel Radcliffe is only 5’5.  It could be that you are scared, or a specific kind of dyshporia. 

Anonymous asked:
Hi, I'm 17 turning 18 soon, and I've recently moved states to live with my dad, and I have no friends and I don't have any support. All of my friends live where I used to and they are all supportive of me being trans male, yet now they are so far away. I honestly don't know how to go about any of it when it comes to talking to a psych. I've grown up feeling uncomfortable in my body for such a long time, but I've had enough. How do I go about this?

Therapy is pretty easy.  You just go and talk about your gender and the people inyour life.  I would check out if there are anything you can do to find support where you live.  

Anonymous asked:
I came to my girlfriend and told her all about the new technology with phallo, and I knew she always thought it was unsafe and expensive, but she started getting worried that i wanted to get one. I'm comfortable with what I have for now but not sure about when I will go on T, I can't speak for my future self. She basically said that she couldn't date me if I got one but blamed it on the risks and the money. She's supportive in every other possible way, but this really hurt me. What should I do?

You need to talk to her.  It could be the first thing that she is being unsupprotive on, but she’s trying to hide behind factors such as cost.  So it sounds like she’s trying to say I’m not a bigot, but…  I’m not in your relationship so I don’t know what she is like, but you might have to choose between her and your transition, which sucks.

Anonymous asked:
how do you pee standing up without a stp? im desperate to learn but i dont know how

I just stand up and lean my body forward a little bit?  I don’t know, I’ve always done it.

Anonymous asked:
I don't want to start an argument or anything, but I felt like clarifying something. Truscum don't believe that you have to hate your body to be trans. You only need dysphoria, and that manifests itself in many different ways and intensities! I myself am truscum but I've also dealt with shitty truscum, but I promise we're not all that bad, and not all of us hate nonbinary people or anything. It sucks that there is so much infighting for trans people. Just wanted to share my thoughts. :)

Thank you for your input.  I think because I am a nonbinary part of trans, but I’m in the FTM side of the umbrella (I identify as boi), when I see people throwing us under the bus, it pisses me off.  I guess I’ve only seen the negative truscums.